Written by Christina Campbell, J-1 Exchange Student
Studying abroad in San Fracisco has been one of the most thrilling yet interesting experiences of my life. As a British student there were a number of different things that I did not fully anticipate before making the decision to uproot my life and studies to a completely different part of the world. I knew that I would have to get use to a new education system and that it would be a new culture that I was pushing myself into but the reality of it is different from expectations.
- The culture shock
Before arriving in San Francisco I thought that there would not be a lot of difference since it was another English-speaking country with a similar western culture however the differences between UK and US culture seemed to be more significant than I expected. I also found that people are much more open and direct here. Small talk with strangers is common, and phrases like "How’s it going?" don’t just mean "Hello" but instead people expect a real answer. Learning to be open in that way has been challenging but also refreshing. It forced me to come out of my shell and meet people on a more personal level.
- Academic expectations
American college life is more constant. There is a heavier emphasis on extracurricular activities, Greek life and sports. In the UK, a good chunk of your grade might depend on one or two big essays or exams per semester. In San Francisco, I quickly realized that the grading system here is more continuous. Weekly assignments, quizzes, and class participation count toward your final grade, and there’s usually an expectation that you’re reading daily. While this approach keeps you more engaged, it also makes it hard to slack off for a week or two without falling behind. At first, I was overwhelmed with the constant flow of work, but I appreciate this as it ensures I stay on top of my work.
- Cost of living – tipping
San Francisco is famously expensive, and I had mentally prepared for that, but the reality of day-to-day costs can still be a shock. Rent, groceries, transport, and especially eating out etc. Tipping was something I didn't fully understand before moving to the US. In the UK, tipping is optional and usually reserved for exceptional service, but in the US, it’s practically mandatory in certain situations, especially in restaurants. Leaving less than 15-20% is considered rude, and it's expected that you'll tip everyone from your taxi driver to your nail tech.
- Homesickness
I knew I’d miss family and friends, but I didn’t expect to miss small things that felt British. Simple comforts like a cup of tea, British biscuits, or even the overcast weather. San Francisco has a gorgeous climate and It feels strange to say, but the weather makes me feel even further from home at times. There’s also the time difference, which makes it challenging to stay in touch with family and friends back home. Trying to catch up with people who are eight hours ahead can be a nightmare, especially when you’re busy with classes. It’s also easy to feel left out when you’re scrolling through social media and seeing your friends back in the UK having get-togethers and nights out.